Secretary (2002)

Director: Steven Shainberg
Language: English
Genre: Romantic Drama, Dark Comedy

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Review
Secretary tells the unconventional love story of Lee Holloway, a young woman with a history of self-harm, and E. Edward Grey, her demanding and enigmatic boss. What begins as a strict, professional relationship gradually develops into a consensual BDSM romance. The film handles themes of dominance and submission with nuance, blending humor, sensitivity, and emotional growth. Maggie Gyllenhaal’s performance is both vulnerable and confident, giving Lee depth and agency.

Themes

  • Power exchange and mutual consent
  • Healing through unconventional relationships
  • Self-discovery and acceptance
  • Breaking societal norms around love and intimacy

Audience Suitability
For adults open to alternative portrayals of romance and sexuality, especially those interested in BDSM depicted with mutual respect and emotional depth.

Cultural Impact
Critically praised for its unique tone and respectful handling of BDSM. Helped shift mainstream portrayals of kink away from stereotypes, showing it as a consensual, meaningful connection rather than purely taboo or abusive.